You were a challenge for her. You had a superior value and she was irresistibly fascinated by you. Now she's gone and you are saying: "I want my ex back!"

I am going to make a wild guess here, however can it be that as time went on, you grew to become less and less of a challenge for her? And could it be that now, you are zero challenge for her? Not to mention that she believes if she wanted to, at any time she could easily get you back again and twisted around her finger just by saying the word?

I am going to be crude here, but as you may already know, to develop into a challenge again you have to prove to your ex lover that her sexuality has no influence over you any longer. Consider what it's like when you are stalking her with not returned telephone calls, voice mails, text messages, and emails. And then consider just what it's like when you keep doing it (as many guys do) even after she's told you to stop. You're indicating to the woman that you are a low-value guy without any other choices.

Your lady won't respect you again until you refuse her sexual power over you. Fortunately you are doing that now by not specifically communicating with her. The last thing she needs to hear from you now is how much "I want my ex back", so stay away from her.

Be sure to stay 100% rigid with your communication cut-off. Don't be "friends" with her, because that rewards her with the continued consent of power over you while providing her a convenient reason to stay separated. (She reasons that she is letting you down easy that way, assuaging any culpability she may experience.)

However, always keep her locked in with the help of your stuff. Most likely lots of your possessions are at her place, and vice versa. She may also owe you money as well. She might get a mutual friend of yours to ask you if you would like everything back.

The best response to this is "No, not yet. The reason is simply because her possessing your stuff (and you possessing hers) is still locking the two of you in and ensuring future communication. You do NOT want to give her the psychological closure that would result from settling your accounts.

For the next 3 weeks, you must completely accept -- and embrace -- the idea that you are an independent man now. Take what happened with your ex-lover and learn from it. You've got a fantastic chance to transform your life which will ultimately allow you to get your exgirlfriend back.

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