Are You Scared To Approach Or Meet Up With Ladies?
 
 
 

There is a simple thing that guys could do to boost their confront on approaching women and meeting women.

Whenever you feel uncomfortable in any circumstance, it means that you are approaching this situation on too high a gradient. Rather than runing away from the situation, reduce the gradient.

What exactly are gradients? Gradients are like steps on a ladder. If you try to skip to the top of the ladder on your first step, it will be impossible to accomplish, and you will not succeed. If you continue to keep trying it over and over you will start building up a complex regarding failing, and soon not try anymore.

If you try to jump up five or six steps in your initial try, it will also be scary -- not really impossible but scary. And the probability is that if you have no experience jumping that high you will fail .

The proper strategy is to take the first step and then advance one-step each time. It is the most comfortable way to climb a ladder.

When I was a young man I would notice a lady I was attracted to and thought I had to express to her how much I liked her straight away. Well that was jumping up too many steps on the ladder. I didn't even know her.

The initial step is a straightforward "Hi" and a smile. Then keep walking. Get comfortable simply saying "Hi" to girls. Then as the next step when they say "Hi" back or ask you a question, answer the question, or make a comment about something that she has her interest on to continue the conversation. For instance, if you are in a bookstore and she is looking at a book on cooking, ask her what she thinks of that book. Is it worth it?

Conversations develop naturally. Do not push it. Get to know her before you decide that you like her.

Of course, there is a whole lot more to it, but these are excellent basics to begin with. If you use gradients eventually you will know how to meet women.

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