OK... time has come. You have joined an online dating service or two. Now you must write that all-important profile... the one that will attract consideration and reel in the man of your dreams... but how to start? Maybe writing is not even something you think you do all that well. Even so, you can do this.

The first thing is to be absolutely honest about yourself. You are looking for that man who'll like ... maybe sooner or later love ... YOU .... THE REAL YOU! Examine past relationships and list the things that you liked and the things you did not like. If he smoked in the house and you hated it, you will not like it any better next time. If you love cats and will always want to own one or more, say that you are an animal lover and want indoor pets. Someone who hates cats or is allergic to them isn't the guy for you.

Accent the things that allow you to unique. If you play the piano well, you really want Mr. Right to appreciate it. If you run in marathons, a couch potato is not a good match. If you'd prefer art, you really want to avoid a man who thinks Picasso is an ice cream flavor.

Describe the things that are vital in your life. If volunteering is the one thing which makes you feel useful and worthwhile, you desire someone who would, at the very least, support you if not join you in your volunteer projects. When you get beyond superficial things, you will attract guys who share your values.

Invest in your on-line profile by hiring a professional photographer for your first online picture. This is so important. The picture is the first thing men see. Next is that they read what you have written about you. Some online dating sites even provide you with a list of photographers in your area that specialize in online dating site photos.

One other thing. You might like to buy a couple of those men dating books that let them know how to meet women, attract women, and relate to women. You might get a few tips that will help your profile.

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